Our third grandchild was due yesterday. YESTERDAY. Apparently she or he doesn’t know that we (me?) are a very impatient family. EVERYTHING is ready. Bags are packed. Exit strategies have been checked and double checked. I’m sure our son-in-law Travis has developed a computer program that details the fastest, safest and most efficient way to travel to the hospital. Now we just need the baby to join in the fun.
I think Bess is getting a little weary but she’s never been more beautiful and could be a model for some pregnancy magazine (if they have that sort of thing). But still she’s ready to have her baby NOW. Soon-to-be big sister Anna was telling me yesterday about how she plans to help with the baby by fetching diapers and singing lullabies. She told me that babies go “wah, wah, wah, a lot” and that “they’re really little”. So she’s prepared, too. Travis is adorable – fretting over Bess and Anna and the ‘what, when, and why’, etc. I love how much he loves my girls and I love him, too.
So here I am the granddad with nothing to offer. I’m ready and patience has never been my ‘strong-suit’. I just keep praying and thinking positive thoughts and try to be upbeat but that’s not much comfort to an overdue daughter and a nervous son-in-law. I had a dream last night that Bess was hanging from some dangerously high beam at some construction site. But I was able to save her! And she was okay but she didn’t go into labor in my dream. I guess I just need to feel like I’m serving some purpose even though this whole ‘having a baby thing’ is beyond my control. When Bess was a little girl I could patch up a scraped knee but I’m completely useless in the baby delivery department.
Of course, there’s Nana Deb ALWAYS appearing calm in the face of uncertainty (man that bugs me!). But I know that she’s as anxious as me and truth be known she’s getting a little antsy, too.
One thing is for certain – Baby will arrive soon. Dear God please grant me patience – but hurry! Oh yeah, and help Bess and Baby, too. Sometimes I forget that this isn’t all about me…